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Laura Creighton's avatar

re: "Play the long game [...] they just move on to the next thing.

Up until 3 Days ago, I would have agreed 100% with this. And I still think that playing the long game is correct. But 3 days ago I read this:

https://www.thefp.com/p/nellie-bowles-morning-after-the-revolution

in particular:

"To do a cancellation is a very warm, social thing. It has the energy of a potluck. Everyone brings what they can, and everyone is impressed by the creativity of their friends. It’s a positive thing, what you’re doing, and it doesn’t feel like battle, but like tending the warm fire of community. You have real power when you’re doing it, and with enough people, you can oust someone very powerful. "

And before I read that, I always thought the great problem of cancellation and peer pressure was one of cowardice. If we could just get people to demonstrate a bit more spine -- and help those trying to oppose cancellations -- it would just stop. Now I have serious doubts about this approach. Being loved by Bari Weiss and converting to Judaism seems to have redeemed Nellie Bowles' soul. What if 'peer pressure' is not the pressure to conform, against your will, against your own knowledge, in order to belong but instead some sort of horrible perversion of the desire to grow, be nurtured, and succeed?

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Coel Hellier's avatar

Minor point, but do you mean Kathleen Stock rather than “Helen Stock”?

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